martes, 9 de diciembre de 2008

Apatía: cuando la pareja se diluye en la amistad


"El tiempo hace estragos" dice el dicho y esto casi se convierte en ley en las parejas. Uno de las rupturas más significativas que produce el paso del tiempo es la transformación del amor erótico en un amor casi "fraternal"(digo "casi" porque el amor de pareja no tiene la supuesta incondicionalidad del amor fraterno o amistoso)¿Está bueno que el amor erótico dé paso al amor amistoso? ¿cuán necesario es la atracción y el amor pasional para mantener una pareja a flote? Podría postular que no podemos basar una pareja sólo en el plano erótico/sexual o en una atracción física eterna. Los cimientos de una pareja se fundan con muchos otros elementos además del sexual: compañerismo, respeto, intereses en común, proyectos, etc. No podemos pretender que nuestro compañero/a sea el amante perfecto/a, que despierte pasión la misma pasión erótica que despertaba en sus comienzos. La pasión es como el fuego: prende facilmente, pero así como se enciende se consume rápidamente. Es en esta declinar lento (o no, esto dependerá de cada caso) pero sin lugar a dudas llamativo que el lugar del partenaire ahora va ocupando un lugar más de amigo o compañero antes que de amante. Pasa a ser aquella persona que le confiamos practicamente todo, esa mitad que nos acompaña a todos lados (en algunos casos realmente las parejas se simbiotizan de tal forma que las personalidad del individuo se diluye casi por completo) . Aquí es cuando la atracción sexual paso a un segundo, tercero o cuarto plano. Es en este interín que muchas parejas buscan el salvataje en la infidelidad. Un tercero sirve para reflotar las tensiones sexuales. No siempre se da esto, pero hay que estar atentos al al declive de la atracción y la sexualidad dentro de la pareja. Tampoco es que este en contra de un vínculo amistoso dentro de una pareja, pero hay que tener cuidado con la apatía y la astenia erótica, ésta es como un asesino silencioso que entra en puntas de pie y nos acuchilla por la espalda. Sigilosa como una serpiente, la apatía va envenenando de a poco la atracción sexual, para dear sólo vestigios de algo que mal llamamos "amistad".

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